You May Not Think It’s a Big Deal, But It Is

I don’t care if you rode the bench for three years at Nowheresville College. If you are (or were) a college or professional athlete, you can leverage it in business. This is something I am deeply passionate about.

I make my living digging into businesses to uncover what makes them special and then I turn that into successful marketing. My favorite businesses (or entrepreneurs) to work with are those who are killing it at what they’re doing but don’t have the slightest clue how to market themselves.

Many athletes fall into this category, but have an even greater advantage than the successful businesses. They can actually launch a successful business (or at least get off to a great start) around being an athlete.

Again, I don’t care where you played or whether you played. Our culture loves athletes. Simply carrying that label will open doors.

If you are currently an athlete, network NOW

Make your current experience section within LinkedIn your status as an athlete and search for anyone and everyone relevant to what you want to do (or think you want to do) in business.

There are three kinds of connections you can make:

  • Fellow athletes. You have street cred simply by playing college or professional sports. Look for athletes with successful businesses and connect. Ask for advice. There are waters they’ve already navigated and they can provide invaluable insight.
  • Business pros. Do your research and find business professionals you respect. If you are a higher profile athlete, you have many people bugging you for attention. They want you to start a business with them. They want you to work with them. Make sure you find the business professionals you want to work with.
  • Influencers. Depending on the type of athlete you are, this may include media, performers, speakers, or authors. You will capture attention simply by being an athlete. Use that to your advantage.

If you are a former athlete, leverage your past

Whether you have a business or you’re working for someone else, your past as an athlete will open up conversations. Maybe you’re in sales and being a former athlete is a point of connection with potential clients or customers.

Perhaps you’re starting your own business and bringing up your playing career will open doors for sponsorships or partnerships. There is a way to leverage your past — regardless of what you do for a living — if you do it the right way.

The key is to look at what you do and strategically work it in. This may be in the public eye or behind the scenes, but there will be a way you can benefit from playing college or pro sports.

If you don’t believe me, I am living proof and I didn’t even play professional (or college) sports. I managed a website for an NFL team and my husband works in media relations for a college program. Mentioning what we do (and who we know) opens doors.

The same will happen for you.

It’s never too late to start

Even if you’re 10 years beyond your playing career, it’s never too late to start. Optimize your LinkedIn profile to include your playing career and start connecting. Add custom notes to your connection requests mentioning your past as an athlete.

Connect with big-time influencers who went to your college or university or businesses associated with the pro team you played for. Reach out to other former players and athletes. Take the same determination you used to compete and leverage it in business!

About Chrissie Wywrot

Chrissie Wywrot is a B2B lead generator and personal brand strategist who works with passionate entrepreneurs and professional athletes. To learn more about her services, visit her LinkedIn profile or email her atchrissie@chrissiewywrot.com.

How My Competitive Spirit Has Made Me A Successful Entrepreneur

Once an athlete, always an athlete.

From the time I was a child, I loved competition — playing basketball, volleyball, tennis, and running track in middle and high school. Sometimes I was the best (in middle school I would beat girls and boys in the 800 meter run) and sometimes there was plenty of room for improvement (as a point guard, I would frequently get stuck in the right corner of the court because I couldn’t dribble left-handed).

I peaked as a runner as a freshman in high school, gaining weight and subsequently slowing down my sophomore year. I have since resurrected my love of running as an adult, running 3-5 miles daily at a 7:15-minute-mile pace.

Hey, it allows me to feel like I’m still a “real” athlete.

As someone who has worked with professional athletes, however, I recognize the shortcomings of my athletic ability. Sure, I can pretend I’m an Olympic star, but the truth is that I avoid structured races because I know my competitive spirit would attempt to win and I may keel over while attempting to keep pace with the top runners.

At least that’s what I tell myself. Maybe I avoid them because I don’t see the point in competing if I can’t win.

That’s why I love business. I’ve transferred my relentless desire to compete to another medium … and it’s one I win frequently.

An Athlete in Business

Leaving a professional sport (I was a digital media coordinator for the Detroit Lions) in early 2014 to be an entrepreneur presented an unexpected zing of feeling like the underdog. Engaging in business as an entrepreneur is one of the most intense competitions there is, and I felt it 100-percent.

I experienced a two-year journey of uncovering my strengths, ultimately learning that what fueled my love of athletics also drove me in business: strategy, competition, and the thrill of the win.

Whether it’s closing a new client or closing a lead for my clients, that feeling of winning is everything. Putting together a plan for myself or a client and seeing it come to fruition reminds me of how it felt to pass the boys’ exhibition team on the final lap of the 4×800 in high school. I relished it.

I clearly remember the look of fear on the face of my competition at the thought of being beat by a girl (God forbid) and swiftly passing him on the straightaway.

Don’t mess with me. I’m strong and I possess a relentless hunger to beat you.

My Perfect Clientele

This is why I love working with professional athletes — I speak their language. I get that they want to win and be the best at everything, but I also recognize that they must see the parallel between sports and business to realize that success.

The truth is that some don’t.

The ones that do — and see how they can leverage sports to be even better in business — do amazing things. It’s a combination of confidence and humility; understanding they aren’tthe best at everything, but knowing a certain amount of natural ability and hard work can result in greatness.

The Non-Athlete Athlete

Not all of my clients are athletes in the traditional sense.

I also work with entrepreneurs out who — like me — carry the mentality of a professional athlete. Those who love the thrill of the chase and passing competition on the final straightaway.

Sometimes that comes in the form of winning business deals. Other times that comes in the form of helping others. Achieving a “win” through seeing a client get physically healthy, build his or her own successful business, or develop a business strategy, all embody the clients I work with.

It’s about setting and achieving goals.

Successful Swag

Whether you’ve competed at the highest level of professional athletics or simply carry a business swag reminiscent of Steph Curry shooting a three at the buzzer, I want to hear from you. Reach out to talk business strategy, sports, setting goals, or getting wins.

There is always room to get to the next level.

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Don’t Forget to Focus on Life After the Game

Playing professional sports doesn’t come without consequence. The grueling schedule of college athletics means certain educational opportunities aren’t always available. Film sessions, practices, and travel leave little room for anything other than sports.

There are many players who have done things right, however, maintaining a focus on life after sports while playing in college and professionally.

Here are a few I have the pleasure of knowing personally:

Nate Burleson: The Media Mastermind

I met Nate when he signed with the Detroit Lions in 2010. A likable person and a natural-born leader, Nate quickly become one of the most-liked players in the locker room.

From a business standpoint, he did a number of things right to set himself up for the media success he’s experiencing now.

  • He always made himself available to the media, building respectful relationships. This is critical, because the ability to go to the well of media relationships when promoting a business is huge.
  • He built strong relationships with the front office, allowing him to take advantage of broadcast bootcamps and guest anchor opportunities while he was still playing.
  • He networked like crazy.

Now Nate is living in New York, co-hosting Good Morning Football on NFL Network, and looking ahead to The NFL Today on CBS in the fall.

Ryan Broyles: The Saver

Ryan is a perfect example of what one should do after signing a contract: he lived well below his means and saved. This is rare in our society, let alone professional sports!

What happened with Ryan’s career, however, revealed the choice he and his wife, Mary Beth, made to be even more critical. Ryan suffered multiple injuries throughout his three years in the NFL and never saw a second contract.

He and Mary Beth made headlines with the way they lived on $60,000 per year, giving interviews to a number of different media outlets.

He is now enjoying a career in real estate, but — as an avid reader and student of business — I have no doubt he will continue to grow as an entrepreneur.

Drew Stanton: The Connector

I spent last weekend in Lansing with Drew, his wife, Kristin, and two of my former colleagues, Kim Doverspike and Chad Walker, both of whom work with Drew’s High 5ive Foundation.

Drew enjoyed a decorated career as the starting quarterback at Michigan State before he was drafted by the Detroit Lions in 2007. Remaining in the state he grew up in and played college football, he started his foundation right away.

That foundation has continued for a decade thanks to the way Drew leverages his Michigan State and NFL connections. He has one primary event each summer — his celebrity golf outing and charity auction — which funds everything the foundation does.

His foundation has done work with Sparrow Hospital in Lansing, Special Olympics of Michigan, and the Cystic Fibrosis Foundation. Now a 10th-year veteran with the Arizona Cardinals, Drew is a great example of working a network to create a successful foundation.

Doing it Right

Leveraging a career in pro sports is about more than showing up — Nate, Ryan, and Drew are great examples of actively taking advantage of the opportunities presented to them. When players truly see what they have open to them, the possibilities are endless.

4 Reasons Reserve Athletes Make Up the Best in Business

Many athletes struggle with capitalizing on their pro sports career when transitioning into business. They see what they did in the sports world as “no big deal” and that it’s “cheating” to allow it to give them a leg up.

This is primarily true of those who don’t have blockbuster careers. Headliners often have no problem taking advantage of the fame, but what if you only played two or three years? What if you never made it to an active roster?

Honestly, these athletes are often the best for business for a number of reasons.

1. You Fought for What You Received

We all know about the guy who had no problem starting at every level. The player who coasted his way to starting as a freshman before becoming a first-round draft pick. For those players, it always came easy.

Not for you. You had to scratch and claw for every opportunity you received because it didn’t come easy for you. As a kid, you were always elite. You were the best in your hometown and there was no doubt you would move on to stardom.

Once you reached the collegiate level, however, you met players far better than you. Or perhaps you recognized that – while you were great in college – you weren’t physically built to be elite in the pros.

This is a tough pill to swallow and it humbled you, but it also fueled you to work even harder. It resulted in commitment and dedication to achieving your dream of playing at the pro level … and you did it.

2. You Work Hard in the Classroom

Fighting for that final roster spot meant you had to be great in the classroom. You had no choice. Not only did you have to be as easy to work with for the coaches as possible, you had to know how to fill in at more than one position to carry value.

Non-starters have to be flexible, regardless of the sport. In baseball, you’re called a utility player. In football, you have to learn new plays at multiple positions each week. It’s an added burden that requires greater commitment.

You may have also experienced moving between teams during your career or during the same season. Each move requires learning a new playbook, system, or strategy. Often the primary hurdle is picking up new terminology, signals, or signs, but it still requires quick learning or going home.

3. You Possess Discipline

Pro sports is a hierarchy. All players are not treated equal. Though touted as “just a game” by fans, sports is a business that requires winning. For that reason, starters receive preferential treatment, regardless of the sport.

This means you had to work overtime to hone your skills because you didn’t get as many reps as the starters. You had to pull coaches aside for extra work because they put their focus and energy on the starters during practice.

You were responsible for putting in the work required to keep your job … no one was going to do it for you. That shows discipline and integrity because nothing was handed to you.

4. You Are a Team Player

During games you may have acted as a bench coach, encourager, or scout … and you did all of that knowing you were one injury or extra inning away from getting into the game.

I was always in awe of the inactive or reserve players during my time in the NFL. They were often the most charismatic, fun, and supportive guys on the roster and put the betterment of the team ahead of their own personal goals.

A good sense of humor is also common among these players. I remember one guy in particular who was added and then released multiple times each year for many seasons. Each time he came back, we would see and laugh, “You’re back?”

He would smile and say, “Yeah, I’m back,” even though this constant back-and-forth meant moving multiple times throughout the year and staying in shape year-round just to be ready in case he received a call.

Let Pro Sports be Your Brand

Whether you played two seasons or two minutes at the professional level, the fact that you made it there at all is something to build your brand around. Recognize that playing professional sports is a job that requires a number of high-functioning skills to succeed.

Leverage it to build the business you are passionate about. Tell potential employers you played at the highest level of your sport and articulate why it matters. If the people you’re working with don’t recognize it for what it is, maybe they’re not the people you should be working with.

The bottom line? You put in the blood, sweat, and tears … now go ahead and own it.

How to Pitch a Story to the Media

Pitching a story to the media is truly an art form. There are a number of components to consider from the individual writing or reporting your story to the audience that will be reading or watching it.

I have pitched a number of stories in my role as Director of Communications for The ChadTough Foundation as well as in my consulting work with professional athletes. Therefore, I recognize what it takes for a story to be picked up.

Whether you’re looking to promote an event or simply promote yourself or your business, here are questions to ask yourself as you look to media to cover:

Is your story newsworthy?

There are two types of professional athletes: those who generate media attention when they wake up in the morning and those who are asked if they know the athletes who generate media attention when they wake up in the morning.

You know who you are.

I greatly appreciate the players who have a sense of humor when they show up to a kids’ charity event only to be asked if they “know Miguel Cabrera/Lebron James/insert megastar here.”

Point being, if you aren’t generating news simply because you’re breathing, you will have to ask yourself if what you’re doing is newsworthy. Note: stories that seem newsworthy to you may not be newsworthy to the general public.

Did you become the first in your family to graduate college? Live on 10-percent of your salary to set yourself up for after you’re done playing?

These may be worth covering for someone in the local media.

Is your story any good?

Let’s just lay it out there: will anyone care what you have to say? Often times — especially when promoting an event — perspective on whether a story is good or not is lost.

Think about browsing social media or reading ESPN — what catches your attention? What makes a good story?

When you’re trying to promote an event and you’re not Lebron James, the best way to get it out there is to pitch it along with an accompanying story.

For example, let’s say you’re putting on an event to raise money for foster kids. That’s really nice, but it isn’t a news story. Add in the component that you grew up in foster homes and persevered through it and you have a fantastic story.

Is your story mutually beneficial?

This is a big one.

When you’re pitching a story to a member of the media, you must think about whether it is mutually beneficial. If all you do is tell a reporter what you want out of their coverage, you won’t be doing the most critical thing of all: building a relationship.

Once you’ve shown a member of the media that you will help them look good by giving them quality stories, he or she will be more likely to pitch their editors to your events or initiatives.

Note: The mutually beneficial part also comes after the story runs. Push out the coverage via social media or link to it from your website with a thank you to the person who wrote or produced it.

What if your story isn’t picked up?

If the answer to any of these questions is no, you may consider a different way to get your story to the general public. Blog it yourself, write a press release, or post a video to social media talking about your event or initiative.

Bonus: Sometimes stories aren’t big enough for media to cover it themselves, but they will highlight your coverage. Send what you write or record to your media list and you may get coverage regurgitating what you’ve already done.

Do you have to do all of this yourself?

No, you don’t! When you’re just starting out, however, you may have to do a lot of this yourself.

Once you’re more established, it’s a good idea to hire a public relations professional who already has established relationships with the media, writing skills, and the ability to come up with quality stories to pitch.

When you get to that point of hiring someone, make sure you have a specific goal in place such as growing a business or a foundation. That way, you are putting your money to good use and will eventually get a return!

Happy pitching!

5 Myths About Professional Athletes and How to Leverage Them

There are a number of myths out there regarding professional athletes, most of which fuel bar talk among fans. These myths are irritating to professional athletes and many who work in the industry, myself included.

But, as a professional athlete, it’s important to recognize the advantage that can be had by defying these stereotypes publicly. Notice I said publicly. The majority of athletes defy them privately, but that doesn’t pose much of an advantage.

It’s when these actions are promoted within the media that an athlete can benefit through his or her business or foundation.

Let’s take a look at some of the myths.

The Myths

“All professional athletes are rich.”

This one is frustrating. There’s nothing like being treated like scum due to the perception of making millions. Hell, if I’m going to be treated like crap for making millions, it would be nice to actually be making them.

Considering only the marquee players receive mammoth contracts and the life span of an average pro sports career is between three and six years, money is rarely there and — even when it is — it doesn’t go far.

“Professional athletes have the easiest job in the world.”

I’ve seen players limping out of a locker room the day after a game, covered in ice packs, only to suit up the following Sunday. Sports are grueling, and the ones at a national level are punishing beyond compare.

When there are throngs of fans expecting a player to suit up and contention is on the line, there is little room for choice from the player’s side.

Then — to add insult to injury (literally) — fans call players weak when they sit the bench with a broken bone, bad sprain, or other injury that could provide life-altering setbacks if aggravated.

“All professional athletes are self-centered.”

Let’s be honest: athletes are caricatures to the average person. Pawns in a game of entertainment that is far more than entertainment to most. Many fans hold their quality of life in the hands of sports and don’t care that the men or women playing the game are, in fact, human beings.

I truly believe the idea of all athletes being self-centered is a way to subconsciously justify the horrible things fans say about them, but I digress.

“Professional athletes have no idea what it’s like to be me.”

Could this be the most frustrating of all? Yes, there are the celebrity-status athletes who live life differently than most, but most professional athletes couldn’t be picked out of a crowd when wearing street clothes.

“Most professional athletes are immoral.”

Not even close. There are plenty who give all a bad name, however, primarily because the media pounces on the negative stories. We live in a day and age where sensationalism is the way to be. It’s tough to turn our eyes from a train wreck, let’s be honest.

Making the Myths Work

Why bring all of this up? Because professional athletes can use it to their advantage. As painful as it is to look the other way when a drunken fan is hurling insults their way, actively defying these myths or stereotypes can result in great things.

How do they do this?

Here is a step-by-step guide:

1. Have a plan.

Athletes shouldn’t throw money at products or services without an end result in mind. When building a foundation, have a specific timeline laid out before getting started. Recognize what will be accomplished, how funds will be raised, and a plan for growth.

When building a business, athletes must recognize the products or services being provided, who they will be provided to, and how money will be made.

2. Hire a public relations rep.

Whether an athlete played three years or three days, there is an advantage, and it’s important to hire someone who knows how to work it.

Here are some guidelines:

  • They must know how to frame a story. This is critical to getting it picked up. Hosting a holiday toy drive is nice, but it isn’t a news story. Talking about a father of four, recently laid off, who will be able to provide Christmas to his kids because of your toy drive is absolutely a story.
  • They must have a great network. Between media contacts and people of influence, make sure your PR rep has relationships to leverage.
  • They must have basic communication skills. The last thing you want is a piece of content — press release, flier, etc. — published on your behalf looking like a child put it together. Your PR rep is your rep.

Make sure he or she knows how to speak and write. Design experience is a plus, but good taste (and a willingness to defer to someone with design experience) will do.

3. Work your network.

Whether it’s online or in person, athletes must be visible. They can leverage social media (which doesn’t have to be Facebook and Twitter … it could be LinkedIn!) and take advantage of these myths by being open about how they defy them.

They should allow a PR rep to pitch stories (so they don’t appear to be boasting), promote via social, and then follow suit with the right actions.

Fans will eat it up when presented the right way.

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How to Capitalize on Being Well-Known

There are many degrees of “famous.” In fact, fame is relative when broken down. My die-hard sports fan of an uncle may know every player to don a Detroit Tigers uniform while my best friend from college may not know what an inning is.

Because there are so many levels of fame, every business person who is “known” should leverage it. Plenty of start-ups publish blog posts to resounding silence and have to pay for every Facebook like, email sign-up, and Twitter follower they receive.

If you have a network, use it.

Here’s how you can get started:

1. Start with Friends and Family

No, I’m not joking. When you are known just for being you — maybe you’re an athlete, philanthropist, or stage performer — your friends and family are your biggest fans. They love to boast about every single thing you do and will share it to their social media platforms, by word of mouth, and through email.

If you are starting a business and you have a fan base made up of your friends and family, start there. Let them know what you’re up to, have them follow your social media accounts, and pass along any materials they can forward to their friends.

Exceptions to the rule: anyone who is toxic or who would purposefully tarnish the image of you or your business. Skip those people!

2. Nurture Your Raving Fans

Anyone who is well known has a core group of raving fans who want to be a part of everything they’re doing. Maybe these individuals love your foundation’s mission, followed your college sports career, or were first in line at your local concert.

The key is to feed any and all material to this group. Make them feel special by giving them inside information. Start a closed Facebook group just for them where you make a point to spend time each week engaging.

These people are your lifeblood and will grow your business or foundation.

Think of a bulls-eye. Your raving fans are the circle at the center. The more you feed those fans, the bigger that circle will get because they will spread what you’re doing to their networks. That’s how you grow.

3. Keep Relationships with Influencers

If you have reached the point of stardom — even if it’s local — there are influencers who have shared your story. It may be a local news or TV reporter, the principal or superintendent of a school, or a PR director.

Nurture those relationships and make sure they are mutually beneficial. Do favors for those influencers (within reason) by coming out to an event or signing memorabilia for an auction.

Yes, there are those who will try to take advantage of you, but try to find the genuine ones who clearly care about you and what you’re doing. If you have to ask a trusted friend and family member to help you spot the good apples, do it. The key is to find the influencers who have your back.

4. Give Your Network a Reason to Care

It isn’t just enough to maintain these relationships — you have to give these people a reason to care.

Whether you have a for-profit business or a non-profit foundation, share the personal side of why you started that entity and then continue to engage with content. Stay active on social media, post photos of your business or foundation, conduct interviews, and talk about the passion you have for what you’re doing.

Leverage the network you already have to kick-start your marketing efforts and then continue to grow as a person and a professional. These people will cheer you on every step of the way and help you make your dream a reality!

Calvin Johnson retirement

So Long, Calvin Johnson – It’s Been A Great Ride

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Training camp 2015.

Calvin Johnson retired today after nine seasons in the NFL. The announcement is bittersweet for me. I still remember the day he was drafted in 2007. I ran to then-GM Matt Millen and asked eagerly, “Are we keeping him?”

Little did I know that Calvin would have a huge impact on me, both personally and professionally. His introverted personality was one that was tough for me — the always-talking extrovert — to crack. I was used to winning people over when I really put my mind to it, but he would prove to be a significant challenge for me.

He wasn’t one to talk to the media — for no reason other than disliking attention — so when I would come calling for the Detroit Lions website, he avoided me like the plague. I remember one interview in particular his rookie year when he answered my questions with his helmet on and one hand on the training room door.

I’m not one to shy away from a challenge, though, and I knew Calvin was a good guy. I finally started to wear him down during the 2009 offseason. The Lions had just hired Jim Schwartz, who opted to retain Shawn Jefferson as the team’s wide receivers coach. I wanted a quote from Calvin on the subject.

One of my co-workers found him in the locker room and told him I was looking for him, which meant Calvin knew he had a limited amount of time to leave the building to avoid running into me. My co-worker told me as much and I rushed downstairs to find him. Imagine my luck — I found him outside the locker room ready to leave the building. When we made eye contact, Calvin immediately looked deflated that he hadn’t managed to get away in time.

I rushed over to him and asked him if he would talk to me for the website.

“How long do you need?” he asked.

“Five minutes,” I replied.

“Well … I can’t,” he said, searching for an excuse. “Gos(der Cherlius) and I are going to eat lunch.”

I looked at my watch.

“You have to rush to get lunch at 10:30 in the morning?”

He was caught. He knew it. He smirked and said, “Okay, fine.”

When the interview was over, I told him with satisfaction we had held it to under three minutes. He smiled and our friendship was forged.

A Record Year

It was truly an honor to experience Calvin’s record-breaking year. I facilitated his blog and enjoyed that he was forced to talk to me every week, a dejected look coming over him upon seeing me approach. He often tried to get out of talking (much like the lunch excuse of 2009), but he always accommodated.

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Me capturing this image that circulated after Calvin broke the single-season receiving yards record.

I also enjoyed giving fans a behind-the-scenes look at the team through social media. In 2012, I pioneered taking videos of the team getting on the plane for road trips and on the field postgame. As a result, I was like the Where’s Waldo of Calvin Johnson postgame photos. I may or may not have taken a bit of grief for it.

The 2012 season was unbelievable, though. The team had a down year after making the playoffs in 2011, but Calvin’s quest to break Jerry Rice’s record was incredible. He was at the peak of his career and made acrobatic after acrobatic catch, something wonderful to witness in person.

When he finally broke the record against Atlanta – his hometown team – I remember seeing the smile on his face under his helmet. I was (of course) down on the field at the end of the game and made sure to capture the action with my phone. The photographers may have been a tad annoyed with my amateur self getting in the way, but I didn’t care.

Much to my chagrin, it was my camera phone photo that made SportsCenter that night. During Calvin’s press conference, I was in the wings and snapped a photo of him talking with his proud papa in the background. The photo went viral.

The Final Four

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Three years ago in Atlanta for the Final Four.

As awesome as that record-breaking year was, my favorite Calvin experience happened away from football. I was in Atlanta with the Michigan men’s basketball team for the Final Four. I was able to meet up with Calvin the day before the first game and he told me that, if Michigan won, he would take me and my husband (the team SID) out to dinner.

Well, we won. It was one of the greatest sports days of my life and, as a result of making the finals, Calvin took my husband and me out to dinner. We had such a great time.

Calvin and his brother also attended the finals vs. Louisville. That day, though, was the most heartbreaking sports day of my life. I felt like Rosie O’Donnell in A League of Their Own saying, “I thought we had it. I really did.” Losing that game stuck with me for awhile, but that Final Four trip gave me so many wonderful memories that will last forever.

Lasting Impression

I don’t talk to Calvin often, but I talk to him enough. He isn’t a fan of chit chat, but will answer the phone periodically when I call. I have always hoped we would work together after his playing career was over. That remains to be seen, but — at the very least — I know we will always be friends.

I’m glad I can say I know the real Calvin – “C” as his friends and family call him – and the personality behind the visor. Though he has never loved the spotlight, always shying away from the media, he appreciates his fans and the platform he has been given as a professional athlete.

He has an incredible, tight-knit family that raised him right. It’s why he’s always loved football and competing, but values the friendships he made in the game more than anything else. My favorite memories are the years with Shawn Jefferson, Nate Burleson, Reggie Bush, Joique Bell, and all of the awesome characters we had. It was so much fun.

In his statement today, Calvin writes, “While I truly respect the significance of this, those who know me best will understand and not be surprised that I choose not to have a press conference for this announcement.”

It’s the right way for him to go out — quietly and away from the spotlight. But even though he isn’t talking publicly, know that he appreciates his coaches, teammates, opponents, and fans, and will certainly miss the game of football. At the same time, I doubt he really grasps the impact he had on the game. His humility just won’t allow him to see the superstar he really is.

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Please Share in the Name of DIPG Research

When we first started planning for the Infiniti Coaches Charity Challenge in December, we were excited and driven.

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Our sweet Chad Carr.

Honoring Chad by winning this contest was at the forefront of our minds, and as more and more committed to talking about the need for DIPG research dollars, our team only grew stronger.

We were fueled by educating the masses through telling stories of heartbroken families, explaining the science behind the disease, and shining a light on the lack of funding and medical injustices surrounding DIPG.

Our commanding lead in the contest reflected our daily support. With more than 2,000 people voting and spreading the word, we had no doubt we would win this contest for Chad and the other DIPG families.

Now, though, things are different. The political nature of this contest has taken over and it’s no longer about spreading awareness, it’s about getting votes. Instead of excitement and joy over doing the right thing, we are panicking at the thought of not being able to win this contest for Chad.

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A Clarkston charity basketball game has been just one of many initiatives in the name of ChadTough since this contest began.

That’s really what it’s about, after all. This contest started less than two months after he left this earth, and it became a way to officially honor his memory. If we don’t win this contest, all of the effort, hard work, and dedication will be for naught. Or will it?

Jason and Tammi want to get that national spot on ESPN to tell the world what DIPG is and what needs to happen for treatment options to become a reality. They will do whatever it takes to ensure other families aren’t met with the same dead end they were met with when they were told, “DIPG.”

The truth is, though, we can’t control the outcome of this contest. Perhaps micromanaging the voting is the way to go, but maybe it’s not. All I know is that I felt pure joy when we were spreading the word and raising awareness for DIPG. As sad as these stories are, they are uplifting and amazing and inspiring. Introducing the world to these incredible children and their families is making a difference and we aren’t going to stop just because this contest ends.

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We are so thankful for Coach Beilein and Kathleen’s unwavering support for ChadTough! Choosing ChadTough for this year’s Infiniti Coaches Charity Challenge has raised the volume of DIPG’s voice. Go Blue and vote Coach Beilein and ChadTough every day!

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Do we want to win this for Chad? Desperately. We desperately want all of the hard work we have put into promoting this contest to come to fruition in a win. We want Coach Beilein and Kathleen to have a tangible win for all of the sacrifices they have made with their time and effort for the cause. We want the 2,000-plus volunteers to be able to holler and whoop over a win for ChadTough. We want the Michigan State and Ohio State faithful who crossed enemy lines for us to have an award they can hold up high.

But it might not happen.

We have to come to terms with the fact that it may not happen. And you know what? That’s okay. It’s okay if we don’t win the Infiniti Coaches Charity Challenge because we will continue to do all the same things we were doing before. We will continue to fight for DIPG research dollars and awareness.

It’s important to me that we don’t lose sight of what this contest is about: wonderful NCAA men’s basketball coaches selecting charities to represent. Charities doing great things that should be recognized.

Thad Matta – Ronald McDonald House

Ohio State’s Thad Matta is representing the Ronald McDonald House, an organization near and dear to the Carrs. They stayed at the Ronald McDonald House in New York when Chad was going through treatment and have nothing but wonderful things to say about their experience.

These facilities allow families to make a home away from home while their children are being treated in the hospital — something invaluable during very stressful times.

Matt Painter — Smith Family BReaK Thru Fund

Purdue’s Matt Painter is representing the Smith Family BReaK Thru Fund, which supports the Smith family’s efforts toward raising research dollars in the name of their three children: Braden, Riley, and Keaton.

All three children were diagnosed with Riemann-Pick Type C disease (NPC), a neurodegenerative disorder which causes progressive deterioration of the nervous system. Sadly, Braden lost his fight with NPC in 2006 at age 10, while Riley and Keaton continue to fight.

The Smith Family BReaK Thru Fund is dedicated to funding research projects for NPC the way the Carrs are dedicated to funding research projects for DIPG.

Brad Underwood – Nacogdoches Area United Way

Stephen F. Austin’s Brad Underwood is representing the Nacogdoches Area United Way, which serves its community in the areas of education, health and financial stability. Just as the many Ronald McDonald House locations around the country are fantastic in what they do, so are the many United Way locations.

Coach Underwood is not only representing the NAUW in this contest, he offers his time and has been named the 2015 Tim Hayward Volunteer of the Year.

John Beilein – The ChadTough Foundation

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Last, but certainly not least, Coach Beilein has done an incredible job representing The ChadTough Foundation, a charity dedicated to raising research dollars and awareness for DIPG. This disease is one that desperately needs a voice.

Parents are delivered the diagnosis and, unfortunately, left flailing. They are tasked with the responsibility of guiding their child’s treatment in a sea of few options. More often than not, the only hope these parents can cling to is one that comes with an experimental clinical trial that puts their child through too many pokes and uncomfortable procedures.

Treatment for DIPG hasn’t changed in more than 40 years and it point-blank isn’t fair. These otherwise perfectly-healthy children are dying because we have no concrete answers.

Thankfully, family foundations throughout the country are helping answers materialize. Research dollars are being raised, tumors are being donated, and progress is happening. The tipping point has been awareness. The more people learn about this horrible disease, the more progress is made.

Please consider sharing this story in the name of DIPG and voting for Coach Beilein. Yes, we are hoping to win this contest for Chad, but even if you simply share this story and make someone aware of DIPG who wasn’t before, we have honored our sweet little boy and all of the other incredible children who fly high with him.

It’s A Cliché World, But Who Takes the Crown?

Clichés. I don’t know if there is anyone who actually enjoys them.

I have had the pleasure of working in both sports and business (sometimes at the same time) and, unfortunately for me, clichés run rampant in both. The phenomenon led me to an important question: which set of clichés is more irritating?

I’ve put the two in a head-to-head battle to find out.

“What’s the ROI” vs. “Their guys get paid, too”

Acronyms drive me insane … probably because I feel stupid when I hear them and have to look them up. This happened to me a lot when business lingo was first introduced at my old place of employment.

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“I asked for the ROI!”

“Well,” one of my savvy bosses would say, “what’s the ROI on that?”

I would then offer a blank stare and mutter something about having to check. I would go ahead and check alright … I would check what the heck ROI stood for.

Then there’s the sports cliché, “their guys get paid, too.” This cliché is used by a team that is either expecting to be beaten by a far superior opponent or a team that has just been beaten by a far superior opponent. Either way, it is uttered by players as a way to get the media to stop asking why the team lost.

“Their guys get paid, too” equates to, “Dude, did you see those guys? And you’re asking me why we lost?”

WINNER: ROI without a doubt. Hats off to any team that has to remind reporters that the other guys get paid, too.

“Let’s take this offline” vs. “I have to watch the tape”

A statement like, “let’s take this offline” is a fancy way to say, “let’s talk about this later” or “let’s talk about this away from everyone else.” Any fancy, coded statement like that drives me crazy. Period.

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The press conference in sports: where anything that isn’t a cliché is news for days.

“I have to watch the tape” is usually said by a football coach immediately after a game in reference to a player’s performance. The statement serves two purposes:

  1. It gives the coach a chance to regroup with his PR guy before commenting on a player that totally sucked.
  2. It gives the coach a chance to pinpoint with complete certainty which player sucked so he can regroup with his PR guy to deflect from the guy everyone thinks sucked, and avoid saying the guy who actually sucked, sucked.

WINNER: Taking something offline is not only an irritating code phrase, it violates all that I stand for. Always be online. Always.

“Be a team player” vs. “They’re good despite their record”

That whole “be a team player” thing drives me nuts. No one wants to be a team player if you have to actually tell them to be a team player. If they wanted to be a team player in the first place, you wouldn’t have to tell them to be a team player.

What’s more, I feel like beginning an email with, “Hi team!” is kind of like ending an email with, “Regards.” I think ending an email with, “Regards” is like giving the middle finger. If you start an email with, “Hi team!” you might as well begin with, “Yes, you are all my team and I own you and you better be cheerful about it!”

Saying, “they are a good team despite their record,” or telling the media “not to sleep on so-and-so” is a way to avoid bulletin board material. All a crappy team needs is an opponent telling the media they suck and you end up with David beating Goliath.

WINNER: “Hi team!” drives me nuts. Are we sensing a pattern? Perhaps this is why I transitioned to freelance.

“I have a 2, 4, and a 4:30” vs. “He has an ankle”

Cliches

Tomorrow I have a 3.

One thing I’ve learned about high-powered business people … they like to meet. They meet about meetings. Seriously, it’s a thing.

All of those meetings results in abbreviated run-downs of schedules. Instead of saying, “I am meeting with Sam to talk about our budget at 2,” Mr. CEO would say, “I have a 2.”

The sports equivalent is injuries. Coaches can’t be bothered to actually say the word “injury.” Instead, they simply rattle off body parts, which results in some of the more ridiculous statements you will ever hear.

“Sean has a knee … Tim has an ankle … Joe has a thumb …”

No really, that’s what they say.

WINNER: I’m giving this one to the sporting world.

“Low-hanging fruit” vs. “winning with the guys we have”

Something about the phrase “low-hanging fruit” sends my mind right to the gutter.

“We have to win with the guys we have” is another way of saying, “look … this is as good as we’re going to get, can you stop asking me how we’re going to get better?”

WINNER: Low-hanging fruit … what else is the coach supposed to say?

“build a better mousetrap” vs. “one day at a time”

Mousetrap

Congratulations to anyone who successfully set up and played this game.

Okay, when anyone says they have to, “Build a better mousetrap,” I immediately think of that game we had when we were kids that was more difficult to set up than it was to play. I don’t think I ever actually played the game because it was so difficult to set up.

Putting the phrase in context, though, the whole “mousetrap” thing is just another buzz word that drives me crazy. Just say, “We have to find a better way to draw them in,” or something like that. Right?

When it comes to, “We’re taking it one day at a time,” I’m going to do my friends in the media a favor and decode this one.

When a player or coach says, “We’re taking it one day at a time,” what he or she really means is, “Do you really think I have the mental space to look further than the next 10 minutes? I woke up at the crack of dawn so I could work out, sit in a cold tub, and then sit in a boring classroom for two hours. I’m exhausted, and this team we’re playing is really good despite their record.”

See what I did there?

WINNER: Mousetrap. Obviously.

Well, there you have it. My analysis. To be honest, it’s probably not a fair assessment. You’re talking to someone who has always worked in sports and avoided corporate America like the plague.

By all means, you tell me if I’m off base on any of these and feel free to throw in your own clichés that make your skin crawl!